This time of the year brings up many feeling for most of us. Whether it's the comfort of loved ones, missing those we no longer have or even wanting what others have. Either way it feels good to feel wanted and to share things with people close to you. As you know I have met someone who has put a smile on my face daily. I/we somewhat think alike and have both been scared off very easily in the past, so this is somewhat new to both of us. For example we spoke about the weekend spent together and we both agreed that if it were anyone else, we would have been making excuses to get rid of him or her. It's not like we have anything better to do, it's just our nature. Our personal space is very important to us and we don't like to feel suffocated. I am happy to say that things are progressing in a way that movies are made of. Now I do not want to curse this, but I have to say I have this worried feeling, I guess that's because I can't believe it's finally happening to me. You will notice my posts will be far fewer and in less detail as before, but I will try to keep things updated.
We all hope to someday find the "one" who is right for us. For most it starts with lust, and if we're lucky, ends in romance. Don't be scared to try new things, be yourself, and tell someone when they make you feel happy. It's the little things that can make all the difference in the world. If you happen to meet eyes with someone, go a little farther and say hello, you never want to regret not trying. If deep down you have feelings for someone, just let them know. There is no predetermined blueprint for life, make it yours, make it amazing! Why bitch and moan about loneliness when it's only you who can change your outcome. If you continue to think there are no good ones left, your eyes will be closed when they walk in the door.
Relationships-of all kinds-are like sand held in your hand. Held loosely, with an open hand, the sand remains where it is. The minute you close your hand and squeeze tightly to hold on, the sand trickles through your fingers. You may hold onto some of it, but most will be spilled. A relationship is like that. Held loosely, with respect and freedom for the other person, it is likely to remain intact. But hold too tightly, too possessively, and the relationship slips away and is lost.
The Man
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